Stop Life-Sucking Fears

Stop Life-Sucking Fears

Your fears rob you of energy, enjoyment of the moment, and add weight from stress responses.  The atmosphere is filled with anxiety as you are dragging yourself from one room to another.

Think of your life-sucking fears as ghosts talking to you all the time like, “I’m anxious”, “I don’t want to shop”, “I can’t go to the beach” or “I can’t eat out at my favorite restaurant”.

“Hands up, surrender,” the fears say.  Oh, the ghost talk! “Shut up!” you scream.  Yet the voices are still there.  Do you feel like you are caught up in the endless repeat cycle?

Take a deep breath and hit that “pause button”, my friend.  What would happen if you said, “Boo!” to your ghosts?  A few simple adjustments can stop the life-sucking fears.


Life-Sucking Fear Antidote

There is a life-sucking fear antidote.  Yes, really.  Claim your life back, claiming that part of you that is lost.  The way back to “you” is with self-love, acceptance, and patience.  Develop the desire to learn new things that keep your mind growing.  Create the self-confidence to risk going outside your comfort zone.

Fears hold power as we put energy into what could happen again.  Then putting even more energy into not wanting an event to happen again.  Feeding more and more energy really is creating a thought-form.  Energy is real and grows with the thought and energy directed at it.  Where is your energy currently directed?

We need a shot in the arm of self-love, along with choosing a different thought.  Acknowledging fear is a powerful tool to use to bring you back to a calmer center.  Keeping your routine as much as possible allows you to feel like you have control of your life again.

So let’s get started with the “Life-Sucking Fear” technique:

  • Breathe deeply.
  • Hit your “pause” button.
  • Acknowledge the fear and shrink it down small enough to hold in your hand.
  • Now laugh.
  • State what you want to say to the fear or fears.

“Yes, but” is another life-sucking fear

“Yes, but” is another life-sucking fear we must be aware of and take immediate countermeasures.  It is so subtle it is often missed as negativity.  Everyone uses the “Yes, but” – the clarion call of resistance.  Listen and track yourself for a week of how many “Yes, buts” you have. You might just be amazed.

Awareness of your thoughts and actions is a game-changer to improve lowering your anxiety and more easily face fear.  What do you think you are going to lose?  Is the cost of not moving forward with an action?  What does it look like?

Invite friends and family to join in a game of facing fears.  Is there a theme of the “Yes, butting’, around finances, health, confinement, the virus, or others?  Have prizes for those overcoming their resistance and improving.  Make it a weekly event in person for small groups or on Zoom or FaceTime.

“Stay away from negative people. They have a problem for every solution”. – Albert Einstein

Dial down fear and take a break

Dial down fear levels.  I like to use a dial to see where my uncomfortable level is at.  Then use the technique below to effectively lower the fear.

I’ve shared this with clients in hypnotherapy.  One client said, ” I love the visual dial and it has a greater impact and connection for me.”

The dial is a very useful tool and uses both the visual with the left and right sides of the brain.  Also, it will immediately show your resistance at that moment.  If the dial will only go down one number that is great.  Any lowering of the dial is good.  Ask yourself, “What does this fear look like?  Can I shrink it down?”  Then try and to move the dial down again.

Power Dial technique:

  • See a dial with the numbers  1 to 10.
  • Take 3 deep breaths.
  • Ask yourself, “What is the first number that comes to me?”
  • Write that number down.
  • Imagine you turning down the dial 2 numbers.  (If you feel resistance, it won’t go down further.)  That’s okay.

You can do this at any time or place.  Use it and open up to the notion that you have another option to help you achieve your goals.



Create a Room in Your Garden with Feng Shui

Create a room in your garden with Feng Shui

By creating a room in your garden with Feng Shui you can increase your living space.  This is often an overlooked and underused space.  The “garden room” is an ever-changing place that meets many needs for each person.

In these challenging times creating a garden room can help improve your overall health.  Scientific studies from Harvard and Cambridge have shown that places to relax and gather lowers stress and boosts the immune system.  Feng Shui also helps lower stress by bringing balance to your life.  A slower pace is shown to help mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual health.

How will you use the garden or patio area, which is really an outside room?  You can use this outdoor room to relax, a space for writing inspiration, a family gathering area, or a quiet place to regain your balance.

My garden room was created by using the principles of Feng Shui.  It is a place where so many activities in my life take place –  like having morning coffee, afternoon tea, happy hour, writing, sitting, reading, a private retreat, or a romantic time with my hubby under the stars.  Feng Shui allows the balance of flowing from one activity to another.  It brings a different feeling with each activity by expanding the space as visual space, internal space, and balance.  Try some of the suggestions below in your space.

Miracles do happen in this space (see the bird pictured above).  A wonderful Merlin came to visit me one afternoon as I was writing.  He stayed for about ten minutes or more, about ten feet from my cat and me.  We all were in the moment where time was suspended in this magic visit.

Defining Your Garden Room

By defining your garden room, it will save you time and money. Take a look around your yard and patio.  What things do you notice about this space?  Is it inviting?  Do you cringe as you see piles of unused stuff?  If your place is less than ideal, it can be changed.  Give yourself a few moments to reflect on the scenes, sounds, and objects that bring you a sense of well-being and happiness.

Cut out some pictures of gardens or patios you love.  What features draw you the most and evoke a response like:                  “I feel calm.”                                                                                                                                                                                                                     “I love the sounds.”                                                                                                                                                                                                      “I can see us all being together here having dinners with friends and birthday parties.”                                                    “This a place I can kick off my shoes and just relax.”

What theme do you see in this garden room – an English garden, a mysterious Asian setting, a Zen garden, party area, blocking out the neighbors ugly yard, using trees as a sound buffer?  Do you want it all open or partially enclosed?  You can design it by using what you already have.  Let those feelings guide you.  Hear that inner voice like a bird singing in your ear, giving you a clear path to your dream garden room.

Define those settings which evoke a deep sense of peaceful relaxation or watching your children play and grow, a place for the pets to stretch and explore.   Discover more about a Feng Shui Sanctuary.

Creating a Garden Room

Table ready for a dinner party in the backyard

What are the elements you need to create your garden room?  Is there a view you want to frame or do you want to create one?  What about furniture – do want comfy, mission style, or contemporary?  Is this room for one or many?  Highlight a water feature or garden area, or even several areas.  These visual pictures bring a sense of balance and welcome you.  Feng Shui is balance in practice.

Be sure to have several different levels of lighting for interest and depth.  Does a birdhouse delight you, or do you want a birdbath to watch nature?  You can have planters of cedar or beautiful ceramics as part of your dream.

Fling open the doors of creativity.  Let each member of the family contribute in some way to this new space.  It can be simple, a country affair, elegant, or somewhere in the middle.  The canvas is yours to paint.

Feng Shui Garden Room Checklist

If you answered the above questions you can quickly fill out the list below to create your garden room with Feng Shui.

  • Sounds
  • Colors
  • Smells
  • Time of day
  • Furniture
  • Plants
  • Water features
  • Benches

These are a few of the basics to get started on this journey of discovery of bringing nature more fully into our lives.  Enjoy the benefits of your Feng Shui Garden room.

If you need help creating a garden room now call Darielle  (206) 282 4068 for your appointment.  We can do Zoom, Skype, iPhone meetings, or Contact Darielle online.

Use Feng Shui to Thrive During an Election Year

Use Feng Shui to Thrive in an Election Year

Our environment holds the key to our well-being and Feng Shui can be used to thrive.  I’m moved to write this article at the request of many clients and friends who are feeling frustrated, out of sorts, having a loss of balance, stressed, and angry most of the time – and then add an election year on top of all that.

Living in a divided house during this time adds extra punch to everyday living.  We love close relationships, but how can each be supported?  Be open to the point of view of a spouse, a friend, and our children.  Let the love shine through – think about the years of connections and shared experiences.  These can be valued.  Yes, there are obstacles, but solutions, too.  This article will help you as it has helped me and countless others.

Our world has changed and will not return to its former state.  Face masks are a part of our life for the near future.  Find ways to be outside and make the best of your life.

Clients call and ask, “What can I do to get back to the center? or “I just have no energy”.  Yes, disbelievers, there is a way to keep your balance and have moments when you can relax and enjoy your life.

Every election is tense at any level, whether it be the city, state, or federal election.  Elections are won on emotion, not logic.  That being said, let’s start with balancing ‘you’.  Of course, the pandemic restrictions have added a whole other layer of stress, like “shelter In place” is more like “Helter In place”.  That, too, will end.

So let’s get helping you – a positive mindset keeps your immune system strong.  Feng Shui will help the people, animals, and plants live healthier and peacefully.

Symptoms of an upset mindset during an election year

This upset mindset during an election year can show up at the office, school, with family, friends, and even our plants pick up the energy.  Balance is not stationary, it is in constant flux.  You may not even be aware of how your behavior has changed – it could be an awareness that you aren’t yourself.  Excuses may have been made for a bit, but it’s okay, you are not to blame.  There have been too many changes, too fast, without time to process.

The energy of the election is stronger in some years more than others.  It is felt throughout the country and the world.  Be aware of these symptoms in yourself and others.

In Feng Shui, clutter and being disorganized impair our ability to keep our focus and balance.  Ask yourself – Are the following things going on in your environment?

  • Walking to each room is an obstacle course.
  • The bedroom is a wreck – bed constantly unmade
  • Clothes on the bedroom floor – more than usual
  • Dying plants in house or front and back porch
  • Resent each thing you have to do for that person. You love them, but currently do not understand them.
  • Center of the home is impassable
  • Stacks of dirty laundry
  • Folded clothes have sat on the dryer for a week
  • Eating more sugar or alcohol consumption has increased significantly
  • Are you feeling isolated and not wanting to talk?
  • Headache or stomachache (Always have any discomfort checked out by your doctor.)
  • Low energy or lack of motivation

You may have some of these normally, but now the above is really out of control.  These conditions will improve as we bring balance back into your home or office.  Share this list and see what others see in you and themselves.  It can be a way to open up about feelings that are being avoided.

Feng Shui Election Balance Checklist

This “Feng Shui Election Balance Checklist” is a quick way to bring balance back in many areas of your life.

Remember this time will pass, so keep the lines of communication open in relationships.  It may seem like you are living with a Martian companion right now, but be patient.  Be gentle, things will improve.  Some changes will be faster than others.  Keep remembering the reason you were first attracted to this person. This is for everyone not just for spouses, friends, family co-workers.   Find and display keepsakes of those moments.  Thoughts remain with warm and loving feelings.  Pictures of happy events and gatherings assist in bringing those feelings and closeness into the present.  This is one way to lower your stress immediately and bring you into the current surroundings.  Being present in the here and now is powerful.

Feng Shui Election Balance Checklist:

  • Clean up the front entrance to the house.
  • Make an easy path in the garage and entrance to the home.  Put up a family picture including all members.
  • Keep the center of the home clean and clutter-free.
  • Freshen up the bedroom.  Place an object in the room, representing unity and love.
  • Beautify the center of the home – put at little yellow or orange here.
  • Keep fresh flowers in the living room or silk flowers if you are allergic.
  • Put oranges on the dining table – with a mirror behind the table
  • Bedrooms and dining rooms are neutral zones –  no politics or fights here.
  • Add more lush green plants.
  • Grow herbs in the kitchen or windowsill.
  • Bring in a splash of color to both the living room and bedroom.
  • Put new towels in the bathroom – in the center of the room, or a ceramic toothbrush holder.
  • Put happy pictures of you and your partner in the bedroom only – children’s pictures go in common rooms or hallways.

Take a few moments and walk around your home and see how many of these you already have in place.  Pat yourself on the back at how well you have done.  Now those that aren’t in place, do as soon as possible.

Happy balancing!  Let me know how it helped you.

Little Known Feng Shui Fact:

When action is taken what is most out of balance can be addressed first, then it will go down the line of what is next out of balance.  So if things are slow at first – give it time and it will work.  You may want communication with your spouse or children, need more activity, or even want to cut back on sugar.  Feng Shui is a wonderful tool to help you.

If you want a consultation to help you, contact Darielle at (206) 282-4068 or contact Darielle online


Adapters Survive – Are You One?

Adapters Survive – Are You One?

Adapters survive.  Are you an adapter?  When you are down and faced with a hard decision, what do you do?  Slide to the floor, and cry?  Look in the mirror and say, “Why me?”.   After you are done with that, you look around and say there has to be an answer.  Is it solvable?  You start to review what went wrong and how can you resolve this problem.  Learning to adapt is a trial and error process, and setbacks are a part of going forward.  It is all feedback.

Your ability to meet new circumstances and how fast can you change while being centered and grounded can increase your survival rate.  In nature, the species that survive have the ability to adapt best.  Be like the camel – it can overcome the harshest terrain and environment time and time again.  Successful people learn how to minimize stress while moving forward.

You survive by reinventing yourself and drawing upon inner resources and then you can learn new ones quickly.  When we name something our mind more accurately conditions our mindset.  We either claim it in the positive or the negative.


**Mindset Examples:

  • I am happy
  • I am sad.
  • I have a virus.  It’s fatal.
  • I will survive it.
  • I cannot afford that.  I can save and afford it.
Mindset is the king.  Your mind and emotions have to respond when you feel something.  You can change that next thought to a more loving, productive, and positive one.

Characteristics of an Adapter

Characteristics of an adapter are those that include a positive mindset, which is a skill to lower the fear level quickly and uses a setback as a stepping stone.  Adapters use their energy wisely.  They recognize fear and worry which drains their reservoirs when things go wrong.  They accept responsibility with no complaining.

Take a moment.  How would you describe yourself?  Happy – sad – helpless – confident – tall – average – visual learner – an introvert or extrovert?  Where did you learn that?  When did you accept those labels that keep in that place?  These simple answers can open the doors to a new life and becoming an Adapter.

**Characteristics of an Adapter:                                                                                                                                                                           

  • A positive mindset
  • Action taker
  • Setbacks are taken in stride
  • The fear level lowers quickly
  • Persistence and resilience
  • Accurately sees a situation and responds effectively
  • Keeps active and sociable
  • Uses energy wisely
  • They like themselves
  • Can laugh at themselves
  • Able to balance work and home life
  • Don’t complain endlessly
  • Finds a solution

Change your mindset and change your world – is just a thought away.  As a hypnotherapist, I have spent decades helping clients update their mindset, learn self-healing, and call on their inner resources and experience.  This has helped them to get a better job, get married, or start a business.  They learn the tools and a system to move where they want to go.  Learning to create a positive mindset and self-healing are lifesavers.  My clients and I use these skills to overcome being struck by lightning and many other setbacks, and so can you!

Your Mindset Holds the Key

Your mindset holds the key to being an adapter.  A positive mindset moves life forward with ease, as well as health, relationships, and manifesting.  It gives you the backbone and courage to move forward.  By updating filters, our beliefs create a better life.  Adapters take action after reviewing a situation and then have a plan to react in the moment.  Trusting with their inner guidance allows them to take risks to move forward.

Take a moment to reflect on your level of living – ar you satisfied, or not?  Has this been a long-standing condition?  Look at your beliefs – is there one or two you are ready to let go of now?  The act of realizing that a limiting belief allows more good to flow in.

Create a mindset that supports your dreams

Creating a mindset that supports your dreams is the first step to being an adapter.  When you are desperate, you are open to changescommitted to change, and then your life will change.  Without commitment, you are like a weak signal on the radio.  Fire up that intention.  Small changes over time make large improvements and changes. 

**Steps to create a new mindset:

  • Make images of yourself confident and strong with positive outcomes.
  • Face and acknowledge your fears.
  • Relive over and over the times you changed a few things and succeeded.
  • Know what those changes stand for.
  • Set long term goals that you are passionate about.
  • Ask for help.
  • Prepare and take action.
Are you interested in creating a positive mindset for self-healing, either for yourself and others?  Contact Darielle [here}
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3 Ways to Boost Your Immune System

3 Ways to Boost Your Immune System

Can it be that easy in 3 steps to boost your immune system? Yes, it can.  The multilevel intimate relationship we have with our immune system is influenced by everything we do, like eating and feeling.

For that reason let us first let us examine what takes down your immune system:   Anxiety, lack of physical activity, worry, too much alcohol, sugar, carbs, lack of sleep, confinement, current events, and fear.

Self-examination is an important step towards boosting your immune system.  Feeling secure and in control lessens the stress on your immune system.  Facts help calm the mind down and allow you to see the larger picture.  Anxiety is about future worry that something bad is going to happen.

1.  Boost Your Immune System with Food

Boosting your immune system with food is like having your own cheering squad.  Food is not only a way to share a meal, but it is loaded with vitamins and minerals.

Yeah, yeah,  we hear all the time about how well certain foods are for your immune system and you know those things that keep you healthy.  Food stops inflammation to your brain, joints, and your whole body.  So, why are you resisting?  Are you saying, “No” to helping yourself?  You do not have to change your whole life,  just a few adjustments — even one can be of enormous help to your body and mind.

Here are some foods to help you:

  • Omega-3s
  • Salmon and tuna
  • Nuts:  almonds, walnuts, pistachios, Brazil nuts, cashews
  • Apricots
  • Avocados
  • Kale
  • Spinach

Food that increases inflammation:

The food that increases inflammation is in the nightshade family:  eggplant, tomatoes, and potatoes.  However, don’t cut out all the things below, but limit them.  When I eliminated these foods entirely for 3 years, it made an amazing difference.

  • Sugar
  • Red meat
  • High fats
  • Dairy
  • Cheese
  • Alcohol

2.  Activity is an important part of boosting your immune system.

Being active releases toxins out of your organs and moves it out as waste.  It can be outside or inside activity, as long as you move for 10 or 30 minutes, 3 times a day.  Added benefits to activity are that it lowers your stress, calms your emotions, and relaxes your body and brain.  Gardening is one of the best mind calmers and then you get to enjoy your flowers and veggies.  Walking with others is a time to share and feel more connected.


  • Walking with others or yourself
  • Swimming
  • Reading
  • Creative Cooking
  • Taking care of inside plants or outside Gardening
  • Enjoy 15 minutes of sunshine

3.  Laughter and Relaxation

Laughter and relaxation can immensely add to the quality of your life and that of your children and friends. Why?  These free elements give the mind, body, and soul the channels in which to run.  Laughter and joy bring up the energy level and invites others to join in.  It lifts any burden of your whole place.  Loving plants, animals, and even your whole property helps you feel uplifted.

Hot Bonus Tip!

Sea Salt and Sage:  If you are concerned about negative energy and people this is a good tip to clear your energy and your home.  Mix a 1/2 tsp sage spice with sea salt in a small dish and leave by the front door or do several around the home.

Darielle (Dariel) Roskie Archer:  Contact Darielle online here






Eliminate Germs and Viruses with UV-C Light

I had a light-bulb moment and I want to share with you in finding ways to overcome “Shelter in Place”.   My clients are complaining that their hands are looking red and worn from all the extra washing and cleaning. Revelation time – I’ve used UV-C light technology products for years to clean and sanitize cabinets, counters, the air to combat germs, mold, and viruses.  Enjoy the article and cut your cleaning time.

Eliminate Germs and Viruses with UV-C Light

Eliminate germs and viruses with UV-C light by eliminating those unpleasant smells, from bacteria, shoes, closets, and cell phones.  These challenging times increase our anxiety, so how do we solve the cleaning and sanitizing issues we are encountering?  The power of UV-C Light has been used extensively for decades.

Ultraviolet Light Disinfection and Green Technology have been around for 50 years.  It is well documented that hospitals have used ultraviolet light for infectious diseases.  It has also been used in commercial applications to sanitize air and water treatments, cleaning floors, counters, and bedding.

A jingle I made up goes “Germs Go Poof with UV-C light”.  I have used this technology for over 15 years for sinuses.  Later it helped me to clean without chemicals while recovering from an autoimmune issue for the last 3 years.  I believe it helped me heal faster as my immune system wasn’t fighting dirty air and extra elements.  I love the power of technology to help us.

The Benefits of UV-C Air Sanitizers

UV-C light sanitizes and sterilizes the air by way of killing dust mites, bacteria, viruses, and germs.  I have used my Germ Guardian air purifier for more than 15 years and I find the air smells better.  UV-C light renders the microorganisms harmless by disrupting its ability to reproduce.  This is why it is effective against odors.  Cleaning is a way of life for allergy, asthma sufferers, and cancer survivors while washing and sanitizing clothes, bedding, or floors on a daily basis.  Sometimes the chemical smell and harshness adds to the problem.

Cleaning the home without chemicals mentally allows you to relax and gives you more energy to heal and recover faster.  The fresh clean smell that clothes receive from the power of the sun’s cleansing and sanitizing light properties is now available in UV-C sanitizing products.

The more we use this UV-C light technology, the more we experience the wonders of UV-C light.  This is one of the best inventions of this century.   Now you have the opportunity to use the same powerful light in your own environment.

Do you hate opening the front door to be met with the locker room smell from the odor and bacteria smell from our shoes?  We know that smell when a friend visits our home. It is one of the first things we change when we have company.  Kill that stinky smell using the germicidal for 15 minutes.  It has been clinically proven to kill germs, bacteria, viruses, and fungus.  No more dirty, smelly-shoes-smell!

Sanitize that Cell Phone, Face Coverings, and Keys

Sanitize your cell phone

During these challenging times, we love our cell phones and the many options they give us, including the germs on our faces and ears.  Phones you carry and hold against your face carry more germs than your toilet.

Now there is UV-C light technology that will keep your phone clean, face coverings and masks, keys, and any small object that needs to be sanitized.  It saves you money and it is green, too.  What’s not to like?



Be sure to check here for some UV-C products!

Darielle (Dariel) Contact Darielle online

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Holistic Energy Release (HER) Technique for Inflammation

Holistic Energy Release (HER) Technique for Inflammation 

For many years this Holistic Energy Release (HER) technique has helped many clients diminish the pain and effects of bloating and inflammation.  These experiences of suffering from an injury with sprains, arthritis, bursitis, or tendonitis prevent us from enjoying the moment. 

Circulation makes everything work.  Diminished circulation in your body can cause infections and it becomes warm.  Just like in life, projects are delayed, relationships stall, and there are struggles with money. 

We need things to flow in our lives and body — and if it flows, you go.   

I have received many calls in my practice like: 

  • I went camping and hiking and now I am aching all over. 
  • I ate so much I feel bloated. 
  • My arthritis is acting up again. 
  • I hurt myself at home, 
  • I wish there was something I could do to help myself right here and now. 

It helped me many times when I was not close to a doctor or medical facility.  So I am sharing the technique below that I developed more than twenty years ago.  This helped me recover from wearing high heels where I needed more appropriate footwear, but vanity won and I suffered.  I used it with other adventures and later to help others. 

Holistic Energy Release (HER) Technique 

Take a moment and locate where you are feeling tight, uncomfortable, and an area where your body feels hot. 

  • Spend a few minutes deep breathing to charge up your energy. 
  • Using your dominant hand begin pulling that hot energy out of your body, and spend several minutes doing this. 
  • You may not feel anything at first, but keep pulling out the hot energy.  It will feel lighter as you keep moving the energy. 
  • Your hand may feel hot and if so, shake it down towards the ground. 
  • What do you feel – lightness, feeling grounded, or relief?  Just enjoy it. 
  • Set an intention and say to yourself:  “It is okay to release this old energy now.  This part of my body is cooler and functions normally.” 
  • Visualize your hands filled with soothing and cool blue energy. 
  • Place that cool blue energy back in that area. 
  • Drink several glasses of water. 
  • Write a few notes of your experience for later reference. 

This is a basic technique for inflammation and stomach discomfort,  and it helps with anxiety, too.  Just think of it as using energy only.  You can call me for more complex issues that require further steps.  Always check with your doctor, as this technique does not replace the advice of medical physicians. 

If you want more information on intention and how beneficial a positive mindset can be here is an article that can assist you in developing a  Positive Mindset. 

Contact Darielle online

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Three Benefits of Developing Your Intuition

Three Benefits of Developing Your Intuition

Three benefits of developing your intuition is a way of living that allows you to remain calm in the midst of chaos, fear, and laughter.  Developing this innate ability is one of the best things we can do for ourselves.  In troubled times your intuition can show you the way forward.

I have enjoyed the benefits of intuition as a way of life.  It has been an interesting one and continues to be while fulfilling my dreams, from traveling and meeting wonderful people on this walk.  This intuitive path is always there and opens to anyone who develops this natural ability.

Let this short article help you begin your walk.  As I sit here looking out over a valley on this warm sunny day, I feel so blessed to be right here right now and sharing this information with you.  Most people blow off simple steps as not being valuable.  I was one of those, until as I saw over and over again the things I wanted started to manifest — like my love of travel, manifesting free trips and meeting people who changed my life.  Every day has become an adventure.  I invite you on this journey.

Here are Three Benefits of Intuition

  1.  People who develop their intuition take time to enjoy life’s moments.  They slow down to the speed of being present and hear what others are saying.  There is deep listening to being heard.
  2.  The ability to be patient while manifesting becomes inner peace.  Knowing inner peace allows the intuitive to understand there is movement, even in the presence of no forward motion.
  3. While hearing the voice of intuition, there is an urge to do this or go to a different way home. Increased confidence is experienced while using intuition and decisive actions are made.

Opening to Intuition

Opening to intuition begins with quieting your mind and body.   It is in the quiet that intuition can be heard the best.  Take several deep breaths – if you can do this outside it is better.  Think of an easy question you would like an answer to, or that you already know.  You are building trust.  Start small and slowly build trust and confidence.  The same way you build relationships, small steps, and sharing.

  • Breathe in – to a count of 3, Hold 3, Exhale 3.
  • Now ask your question.
  • How did the answer come to you?  Was it a feeling, a flash of insight, or did you hear something?
  • Now practice and record your outcomes.

The Path of Intuition

The path of intuition is filled with many wonderful walks to an amazing way of life.  This journey will last a lifetime, and as you begin to harness this natural gift it becomes a beautiful part of being human.  As you deepen the connection to your spirit and environment, you begin to experience a new rhythm.  The path of intuition is an inner dance with your vibration and frequency.

Being relaxed and open is the start of this path of intuition.  Think for a moment about a day where projects worked out easily – or on vacation just being present and open – and how what you wanted just seemed to be there.  It was as though you were lead from one success to another.

That is alignment.  It is like you know what to do and when while enjoying a ride.  Having no resistance to the outcome is a sign that your inner belief has now become a mindset that provides you the inner resources to accomplish your dreams.

Use the above steps to help you today and every day.

Enjoy the benefits,


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Transforming Tips for a Great New Year and Decade

Transforming Tips for a Great New Year and Decade

We hear it every year, “What is your New Year’s resolution?”  The reality is that a new resolution is about evolving and taking transforming steps.  The coming year is having more of what you want like, “I want to lose weight, get out of debt, recycle more, protect the planet and pets.”  So we make these long lists of what we want before completing them and we know we will never do half of what is on that list this year.  Hold on, there is a way to begin accomplishing your wish list.

Transforming Tips:

  • Ask yourself, “What one thing to do I want to change?”
  • Take 3 deep breaths while calming your mind and bringing yourself into balance.
  • Think of what you want to change again and send your thoughts and energy to it.
  • Sit and listen to any thoughts or images that surface (allow time for this).
  • Write down what you received.
  • Practice what you received.

The secret is to take one thing and then “do it”.  Our brains can do one thing and do it well for the new year.  By focusing on one thing it does not raise our doubts and fears.  We can make our dreams come to fruition by using the above steps.  As you encourage your intuition, it will help you while keeping your balance.

Just “One” Thing Can Start the Decade

Just “one” thing can start the decade off on the right foot.  You have the opportunity to make the new year better and set the stage for an enriching decade.  The first 90 days of a new decade is processing the last year and last decade of areas needing improvements and accomplishments.  So use that 90 days to overhaul that one area you want to improve.

For me, this year is about having more fun and going through my boxes of books in the garage.  Upon entering the garage I am overwhelmed.  If I take one box and go to my favorite place and put on some great music, my previous chore has now become pleasurable.  It has been my experience that generally, instead of just one box, I find that suddenly I have gone through 5 boxes.  Gee,  only 100 more to go!  I will keep you updated on my progress.

Good Deeds Keep Your Energy Up

Good deeds keep your energy up.  It is healing to give and share with others.  I have been the recipient of the “pay it forward” experience on several occasions.  It is a surprise event and instantly warms my heart.

The same is true if you are the one buying someone a cup of coffee or a latte.  It can fill the heart with goodwill and the other person will be so grateful.

A gift membership to a gym, museum, or animal park can benefit children or adults.  Donate old towels, sheets, dish towels, extra paper towels to animal shelters.

Collect coats and gloves for ones who need them.  Is there a single mom or elderly person that could use help?  Just an hour or two could make a world of difference to them.  Perhaps donate time to someone at work who has been ill and needs some vacation or sick leave time.

Being Green Saves Green

Being green saves green – like using reusable containers, soaps, and cleaners.  Lower your carbon footprint when possible like using environmentally friendly toys and games made of wood which are non-toxic for children.  LED lights save energy and everything put on a timer can save electricity.  Give green and eco-friendly toys, gadgets and technology, such as a tablet or an e-reader which saves the environment.

The planet is a living being, too.  Let’s help her when we can and she will continue to help us.  Green is Good.

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How to Feel Abundance When You Really Feel Poor at the Holidays

How can you feel abundance when you really feel poor at the Holidays?

You can do the “abundance dance” during the holidays.  I have been asked a lot lately about how to feel abundant during the holidays when you are struggling and unable to buy gifts or food for the big dinner you want to give.  This is a pattern you may have been repeating for years.

Do not be defined by your past.  Redefine yourself and your relationship to money and abundance.  It is all about your relationship with money now.  Shake hands with it and call it a friend, invite it in.  Everything is vibration.

Do the “Abundance Dance”

The “abundance dance” is a dance of manifesting – Woo-hoo!  Dancing and just moving raises your energy.  Manifesting is easier and faster when you are enjoying yourself with a clear idea of what abundance means and feels like to you.

It may sound silly to dance with “money”, but give it a try and listen to the inner dialogue that surfaces – the really powerful messages will be revealed.

Put on your favorite music and enjoy the dance.  Dance like it is your best friend and you are celebrating an important event.  Trust your intuition and follow it when you hear it.

You can break that pattern by trying the following:

  • Pull out whatever $ bill you have, the higher the amount the better.
  • Get a clear idea of what having abundance, money, and or financial freedom feels like.
  • Now see your table filled with cash – breathe in the vibration.
  • It can be slow or a fast dance.
  • Put on your favorite music and dance, throw your head back and laugh.
  • If you do it in front of a mirror you can visually see and hear what your relationship to money and abundance is.  Mirror work is one of the practices I’ve used in hypnotherapy with great results.

Your abundance can be affected by an environment of fear

The energy of the mass consciousness can really derail your abundance.  Suddenly we are distracted and feeling down, really tired, reaching for food or alcohol and no longer wanting to do anything.  Receiving these calls daily as the current political climate topic comes up and the fear these clients describe is so unpleasant.  They convey how unsettled they are, suffering sleeplessness, and how they have a deep sense of helplessness.  Between sobs, they ask, “Can you help me feel safer, and how do I feel abundance?”

Sensitive people suffer more as they not only identify with the masses but do not know how to disengage from the energy of others and their environment – the radio and television can impact them greatly.  Are you one of them?  The technique below will help immensely.

There is always hope.  Our forefathers played and planned for long term gain and they were well versed in how politics work.  They put many steps in the Constitution to protect the Nation they were building.  They had lived under oppression, lies, war and knew all too well those games.  You think they didn’t feel lost, hopeless, outnumbered, and so much more?

They developed the ability to keep the end goal in mind while keeping balance, building trust in relationships, and quieting the emotions while listening to their intuition.  Many were people who nurtured and trusted their sixth sense.

It is hard to trust when what all we know and believe is challenged – and keeping people upset is trauma overload with all the bad and polarizing information.  Once activated, the flight or fight or a paralyzed reaction is engaged.  You lose the ability to use the higher part of the brain until you calm down and step back to see the whole picture.

Stop for a moment, trust your intuition – there is always a solution.  I explain that the mass consciousness of fear travels like an airborne virus and I give people the technique below to calm anxiety and get their power back.  Know you are not alone.

Tap your inner genius with “Abundance Keys”

Can you hear a jingle jingling?  Really – just listening to your favorite music and moving some will help shift you into a different mind space quickly.  Step in front of that mirror and ask, “What does abundance feel like?”  Do you know or is it some vague concept that keeps eluding you?  Get clear on that feeling, bring it up again, and again.  If you can hold that feeling – walk a few steps.  Notice that you are standing taller?

Bring in the abundance – rev up your energy – you are in control.  Repeat that line again, “I am in control.”  Bring yourself into alignment with your inner resources.  Which ones do you need right now – courage, confidence, persistence, or calm?  List your own.

Bonus Abundance Keys:

  • Get a clear picture of what abundance looks and feels like.
  • Take a deep breath to a count of 3, hold 3, exhale to 3.
  • Call up the quality you want (courage, confidence, persistence, calm).  Feel it, inhale it, let it wrap around you.
  • Do this for each quality you want.
  • Bring up a feeling of when you felt in control.
  • Close your eyes, feel your heart opening up to the idea of having abundance – smell it, hear it grow comfortable with the feeling.
  • Set with that open heart for as long as possible and do it for at least a minute.
  • Listen to the solution.
  • Share something that has value to you.
  • Keep connecting to those feelings.
  • Then walk over a threshold as you affirm, “I am enjoying abundance.”

Remembering times past of simpler holidays when we made gifts and food?  We put our hearts into those activities, connecting with those we loved.  Somehow those encounters have become few and far between.  Those were labors of love for family and friends.  It seems like a distant past, or does it have to be?  As I reflect back, I see those times were indeed simple and “green” before it was the all-around buzz word.  We all felt loved and rich beyond words while connecting heart-to-heart and sharing a common goal.

Now dance the dance of abundance and manifesting!

Enjoy the holidays. Darielle (Dariel) Roskie Archer


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I have personally have used many of Dariel’s energy techniques to decrease the pain in my body as well as shift my energy into a more positive uplifting place!  I feel like I have found gold within this beautifully written, easy to use guide!  Thank you, Dariel, for your expertise and for sharing this information with all of us!!!! 🙏🙏🙏 Lauren, Bellevue, WA